ArrozFeijao
This is a moderated forum
specifically designed for
your questions to a Professional Counselor.
Bob Pardon the director of
Meadow Haven has agreed to answer your questions.
Once a week we will collect
all the questions, send them to him, and post
his answers when he sends us his reply.
It is our hope this will be
as beneficial to you as it has been to others.

Bob and Judy Pardon
| Welcome! |
Messages Posted
Within the Last 10 Year(s) | (Compressed Listing) |
- Question for Bob
Linda -- Friday, 11 March 2005, 5:37 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 16 March 2005, 8:43 am
- A few Questions for Bob
David C -- Friday, 11 March 2005, 5:46 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 16 March 2005, 8:45 am
- Church authority
miriam -- Tuesday, 15 March 2005, 8:11 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 17 March 2005, 7:03 am
- Poligamy
my questions -- Wednesday, 16 March 2005, 11:10 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Friday, 18 March 2005, 7:37 am
- Sexuality after the cult
Someone -- Friday, 18 March 2005, 6:31 pm
3 messages -- Newest posted Tuesday, 22 March 2005, 8:02 am
- Separating God from Rape/Abuse
An Other -- Wednesday, 23 March 2005, 3:17 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 11 April 2005, 7:30 am
- How to combat lack of confidence & low self-esteem
Anon -- Monday, 4 April 2005, 5:47 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 11 April 2005, 7:31 am
- From: on rape/God and Nazi's
An Other -- Monday, 11 April 2005, 2:38 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Saturday, 16 April 2005, 7:38 am
- jalousy and anger
At a loss -- Sunday, 5 June 2005, 7:40 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 15 June 2005, 7:57 am
- sex after the Family
no libido -- Monday, 13 June 2005, 6:36 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 20 June 2005, 1:32 pm
- the other woman
the husband's side of at a loss' post -- Wednesday, 15 June 2005, 6:37 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Tuesday, 21 June 2005, 7:19 pm
- About guilt...
An Ex Family member -- Thursday, 23 June 2005, 6:23 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 7 July 2005, 7:28 am
- your opinions Bob
the husband -- Tuesday, 28 June 2005, 12:59 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 7 July 2005, 7:27 am
- Reaching out to cult victims via e-therapy.
Anon -- Wednesday, 29 June 2005, 10:45 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 11 July 2005, 7:23 am
- about your questions
lydia -- Tuesday, 12 July 2005, 1:56 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Tuesday, 19 July 2005, 3:46 pm
- thanks Bob another question
lydia -- Wednesday, 20 July 2005, 2:43 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 27 July 2005, 5:17 pm
- Thanks sooo much Bob
lydia -- Wednesday, 27 July 2005, 11:01 pm
1 message
- Also thank you, Bob
Linda Tx -- Monday, 1 August 2005, 12:45 pm
1 message
- Question regarding getting help for a teenager.
Linda Tx -- Sunday, 7 August 2005, 7:18 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Tuesday, 16 August 2005, 4:29 pm
- Is it Illegal for a pastor to severely control?
Andrea P -- Monday, 5 September 2005, 8:03 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 14 September 2005, 4:46 pm
- Child Abuse
Maxx -- Monday, 14 November 2005, 7:44 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Tuesday, 22 November 2005, 9:23 am
- Thank you very much, Bob!!!
Maxx -- Tuesday, 22 November 2005, 4:38 pm
1 message
- kid's therapy
Boob -- Wednesday, 30 November 2005, 1:11 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 14 December 2005, 7:23 am
- Merry Christmas Bob (and family)!
Homer -- Friday, 23 December 2005, 7:10 pm
1 message
- Re-establishing Relationships
Charlie -- Saturday, 24 December 2005, 5:38 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 4 January 2006, 7:21 am
- Yes, dysfunction it was.
Charlie -- Wednesday, 4 January 2006, 6:50 pm
1 message
- my son
ktc -- Tuesday, 21 February 2006, 6:53 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 6 March 2006, 4:45 pm
- Recovery
Julius -- Thursday, 2 March 2006, 9:29 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 6 March 2006, 4:47 pm
- After the Family
single mom -- Tuesday, 28 February 2006, 11:18 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 6 March 2006, 4:49 pm
- anoerxic
worried friend -- Sunday, 21 May 2006, 4:14 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 7 June 2006, 4:39 pm
- 16 year old daughter
concerned mom -- Monday, 29 May 2006, 11:32 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 7 June 2006, 4:44 pm
- sexual mind control
day -- Wednesday, 31 May 2006, 3:26 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 7 June 2006, 4:42 pm
- cult of Sri Chinmoy, NYC
donna emerson -- Tuesday, 30 May 2006, 11:15 pm
1 message
- P T S D
J.N. -- Thursday, 8 June 2006, 3:19 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 20 July 2006, 6:57 am
- Regarding my marriage
concerned mom -- Friday, 9 June 2006, 11:57 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 20 July 2006, 6:54 am
- 28 yrs.
deborahd -- Wednesday, 12 July 2006, 12:25 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Thursday, 20 July 2006, 6:55 am
- Question About Post Trauma
Jackie -- Saturday, 30 December 2006, 8:45 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 8 January 2007, 8:01 pm
- A thankyou
judy -- Sunday, 31 December 2006, 5:10 pm
1 message
- Thank You Bob, and another question
Jackie -- Tuesday, 9 January 2007, 8:12 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Wednesday, 17 January 2007, 7:47 am
- Thanks, Bob, and In addition,
Jackie -- Wednesday, 17 January 2007, 5:51 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Friday, 19 January 2007, 7:21 am
- Coping Methods-Are some "better" than others? Why?
Laura -- Thursday, 18 January 2007, 6:19 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Friday, 19 January 2007, 7:20 am
- When the past bites
exer -- Friday, 16 February 2007, 2:44 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Friday, 9 March 2007, 7:15 am
- Coping Part 2 (Compartmentalization)
Laura -- Monday, 10 September 2007, 6:12 am
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 26 November 2007, 8:00 am
- For Bob Pardon
LTX -- Monday, 1 October 2007, 3:37 am
1 message
- Still fearful
Virginia Beauchamp -- Saturday, 17 November 2007, 9:16 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Monday, 26 November 2007, 7:59 am
- My hubby is an alcoholic!
Collette -- Sunday, 25 November 2007, 8:54 pm
2 messages -- Newest posted Friday, 28 December 2007, 8:43 am