I really can't stop being friends with my friends Bob. She's a friend and has very healthy Christian boundaries, end of story. It was simply a work thing, nothing more. It had nothing to do with polygamy. Had my wife been available for the job, she would have been the one doing it. She knows that.

If my wife is suffering post traumatic stress disorder from the relationship out of the past then I agree, she needs help. The past is past. We've been out of the Fam for 15 years and the Fam is out of us. Would you tell other bosses that they were being insensitive for working with women or to fire their secretaries over their wives insecurities? My wife can be a bottomless pit of never ending insecurity and I won't be reduced to the codependent nightmare of never ending rescues. She can buck up and come to the fore, imo.

Again, it was simply a work thing, a deadline that had to be met.