One important thing I forgot to mention is that the police told me because I am the one who made the complaint against him he has to stay away but if his mother says he can come over then he can come over.

My wife is real weak in that area of being tough on him and she may give in to his manipulation game that hes been playing so I would ask for prayer that she and I can get into agreement on these different issues and that she will see the seriousness of this situation and have the peace of the Lord to be able to deal with these things and not get stessed out.

> This is an update on the situation. The
> older son came over this morning knocking on
> the door again. At first I spoke peacefully
> to him but after I shut the door and he came
> back and wanted to talk again and started
> asking accusing questions which started
> esculating into and very negitive
> interchange.

> I told him he needed to go and he just stood
> there mocking me and continuing to make
> accusations. I finally shut the door and he
> stood out side running his mouth and I told
> him to go or Im calling the police. He
> continued the same beligerant behavior and
> so I did and he stood there even talking
> with neighbors speaking evil of me till the
> police arrived.

> When the police arrived he told them the
> reason he was over here was was to protect
> his mother because I beat her up all the
> time and no one protects her but him.

> After the police questioned me it became
> obvious that his story was not matching up
> with facts and they had me tell him in their
> presence that I do not want him around this
> apt and he is not to come over here at all
> and if he does I will file criminal charges
> against him.

> They then told him to go back to his
> apartment. I pray the Lord will get a real
> victory out of this situation. I belive the
> Lord will somehow but cant see the victory
> at the moment.