>> Maybe I should not post here, if it is going
> to un-relax someone, or if I cant refrain,
> from pretending, I'm not in the Family...?

Ahhh! The "F" word again! Twice in one thread!

There are software solutions to this problem. The same routine that changes !bd! into dancing characters could change "The Family" or "COG" into "The orgainization that shall remain nameless".

Or we could use a function called the "Dirty Word File" to change "The Family" into "the ######", and "the COG" into "the ###".

But, of course, the object of this forum, as I understand it is to talk about other things. It can be refreshing. Even transformational!