he is only 21, im 22, but as far as real life experiences go, im like, 30, so maybe it was all too much, i dont know, he didnt seem to freak out at all, AND HE CALLED ME!!! why would he call me and ask me to go out with him, and then not show up?!?! its so weird. i dont want to call cause i dont think i should have to.maybe he wants to end it, and he just dosent have the guts to do it, so hes hoping i 'll do it.if it is, he got his wish.