This could very well be true. Most 21 yr old young men are not experienced in the ways you are. It might be good for you to call him and just find out once and for all what happened and if in fact he does want to end the budding relationship. If nothing else, you will not be imagining things and trying to figure out what happened, at least you will know. It will be better for your state of mind. There's nothing worse than not knowing. How much about you does he know? If I were you, I'd break any new relationship in gently. Don't overwhelm them on the first few dates, give them a chance to get to know your person first before they find out everything about your life. Hope you don't mind me offering you a few bits of advice.

> he is only 21, im 22, but as far as real
> life experiences go, im like, 30, so maybe
> it was all too much, i dont know, he didnt
> seem to freak out at all, AND HE CALLED
> ME!!! why would he call me and ask me to go
> out with him, and then not show up?!?! its
> so weird. i dont want to call cause i dont
> think i should have to.maybe he wants to end
> it, and he just dosent have the guts to do
> it, so hes hoping i 'll do it.if it is, he
> got his wish.