Did he call you or did you call him? This is getting interesting. Where did you get the tatoo put? My daughter has chinese characters on her shoulder and she couldn't get a strapless wedding gown. I hope it's not anywhere obvious, for that reason. But, lots of people have them now.

> there was a good explanation for his being
> late, and he did in fact show up, but i was
> a sleep, and he rang the door bell, but it
> dosent work,lol,he said he felt like such a
> s***, and that he woulnt have blamed me if i
> ended it, which i said was the consensis,
> but i forgave him. this whole day has been a
> real eye opener for me, i realised that my
> self esteem is way to dependent on other
> people,so i went and got a small tattoo, (oh
> my god!!) my first, and last , and it is the
> chinese symbol for "self", or
> "me", and its a reminder for me
> that i am a good person, and i deserve to be
> happy, and to work on my self esteem.