I'm sorry I am just now answering this.
Apparently I read it before because it was not marked as new, but I don't remember seeing it before. My Alheimers must be acting up again.
Anyway sorry to hear about your health problem.
The description of your symptoms reminds me of Fibromyalgia although it doesn't seem to be exactly the same.
In any case. You might try taking OPCs (aka Pyknogenol, Endotelon et al.) It's cheap, needs no prescription, and does a lot to alleviate pain and stiffness in muscles and fibrous tissues.
Take 3 times the reccomended daily dose at first (the reccomendation is actually for veinous problems)
I had a very noticable improvement after just a couple of days.
After a week drop down to the reccomended daily dosage to keep the problems from coming back.