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okay I gotcha
By:lydia
Date: Monday, 27 May 2002, 7:25 pm
In Response To: Re: lets see (Uh, er.., uh, but.. ...)

Setting the mood is important.

Hopefully you bed is big enough, make sure she is not chilled(being naked and all) Start with the feet, grasp them firmly in your hands, massage with the thumbs, starting in the arch of her foot and working to the toes. As you reach the toes, let your fingers stroke upward on each one. Some people actually enjoy getting them pulled a little so that they pop! But some people don't like it so you should try one and see if she leaps off the bed or not!lol Using your elbow, rub firmly into the arch of her foot. MMMmmm feels so good. Next on to the heel using your thumbs to push into the heel, then work your way up towards the ankle(it should be firm enough so it doesn't tickle, but not to hard that it hurts) Stroke that little bit of tendon tenderly, then move your way up the calf. I use my thumbs a lot, pushing into the muscles and the making twisting motions (like a mexican burn) over the whole lower leg. Then you go up towards the thigh. If she starts moaning that usually means you are on the right track and go ahead and repeat what ever technique seems to be working. Using your thumbs to work that upper thing and then twisting both hands around the thigh again. I usually will then stop, and lightly stroke, with fairy type lightness over the entire leg. This is adds a little sensiousness to the motion. Now move your way towards the buttocks. Think of knead bread(except don't pound it!) Really digging in and finish with the fairy touches.

Next you're moving on to the back. Using a thumb on either side of the spine, work your way upwards, you can usually feel spots that need more attention, I say use your thumb but you are really using your whole hand too. circular motions are wonderful. When reaching the shoulder blades, curve sideways into it, can be most delightful. there can be lots of knots and aches here, so go slow and pay attention to how your honey is responding. She should be feeling very relaxed at this point. Continue the climb upward and start on the shoulders, working your way down to the tip of each finger (like you did the foot) Then back to the neck at this point I will firmly press on either side of the spine where it joins the head and move it firmly down to the buttocks. It's a wonderful technique and does wonders for taking away headaches. Massage the neck gently and firmly, responding to the grunts and groans as to how much pressure to exert. Then move up to the head. Massage firmly, in little ciricles, making sure you don't pull her hair by accident. finishing at the top of the head.

Now it's time for her to turn over!!!

But I don't have time to finish this right now. I'll post more later.(hope that is not a bother) Happy massaging.

> Uh! I don't know how that happened, but....
> ha, ha, ha! It just about sums it all up
> anyway. Now, the question was, "What do
> you suppose my lady would like?" I've
> got the scented candles, the powder. Now
> what? I'd like to work her over first. She's
> important! My stiff and aching muscles can
> wait a bit.

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