Your own message and truth can be used against you. For you see 'the law of love' or better yet the 'law of the heart' when we have a fear of the Lord can be love and can not be bound if done in the spirit.
IMO according to all scriptures
Jay
> I wasn't that clear above, in saying that
> the family is contradicting themselves when
> they say they believe in love and sex but
> don't have the freedom or the faith to put
> it into action. It must be horribly
> contradictory and unnatural if they are in
> the outside world, and get a natural
> attraction to someone and have to resist
> what comes normally and naturally and
> spiritually. They can talk the talk with
> that person and give out romantic tracts but
> they couldn't put it into practise.
> So family have you not ever realized this
> contradiction....I know you will say you
> have to do this because of disease etc,etc
> and you don't have the faith to overcome
> germs and viruses or the devil within or
> without, but doesn't it ever occur to you
> that you're not free to love outsiders.
> So wouldn't it be better if you didn't have
> the threat of being ex-communicated if you
> happen to fall in love with somebody outside
> the family. isn't love possible with others.
> Don't worry, I'm not interested in expanding
> your horizons to the freedoms outsiders have
> as you choose or have been given your
> restrictions, but I thought I would show you
> one of your shortcomings and
> inconsistencies.
> ATB in whateevr you do for the Lord and
> whatever you have the faith for, because its
> your faith that counts with the Lord and as
> you might
> Jay