Yes, I understand now that it was not my fault. It hurt a long time though and I did not know it was because of the abandonment.
I had a low self-esteem,etc...and then you always think that all relationships are doomed to fail. You get yourself ready to deny your own personnality to please others,others dominate you. It is a perfect set-up for end up in a cult.
> Sorry I didn't see this earlier, LOLO. You
> are so right. We are not alone.
> Do you understand now that you
> mother's abandonment was not your fault.
> That it was her fearfull, poor choice?








