I really appreciated your statement:

I found the people that helped the most were people who had worked with Domestic violence, rape etc.
Destructive cult leaders like Berg and Zerby
are like rapists. The isolation abusers keep
their family's in is similar and so is much
of the abuse.

We have also found it to be very true. I can feel your exhaustion "tired". I'm also sensing your mama's determination! That's some strong stuff.

I find that I'm praying for God to bring people who can really get a clear picture and direction for your son into your life. Sometimes when we couldn't see any light at the end of the tunnel, God would just sent an angel. They seldom knew they were. But I did. TYJ!