
Thanks for your concerned and really encouraging post. Our children are our hearts. I find, as I have said, I get a glimpse of God's love for us in that. Especially the hard times.
I found the book you mentioned. It's $9.50. It's not as cheap as the one George found, but it was the only copy I found on several sites. Hope it helps.
Author is Dr Robert Hemfelt,
Title is Love is a Choice: The Groundbreaking Book on Recovery for Co-Dependent Relationships
